Celebrate Merdeka ???? Come on la...

Where did u go for merdeka eve ?? What did u do for merdeka eve ? Did u have a blast ??? Merdeka celebration was a blast in Kuala Lumpur !!! What Crap is this ???

I just drove somewhere near had a meal with another Malaysian and a Sri Lankan.. thats all..

Merdeka !! A word i respect.. a word i appreciate very much.. a word that contains.. all the tears.. the blood and the pain.. gone through by those people who fought for the independence of this country.. They were UNITED and the fought for it with all their heart and they got it.. I still remember my grandfather told me.. when they hear to Tunku Abdul Rahman's voice saying MERDEKA proudly that day.. the people even had goose bumps.. it was that special..

They got the independence.. for what ??? for us to still be like this ?? RACISM everywhere.. A fellow fren from another country said after spending few years here.. " Racism is like a built in our body system and its like we r born with it ".. We must feel ashamed when someone else see this in our country that we always BOAST about being.. Multiracial.. Multicultured.. Multinational..

Young kids are being told by their parents.. that is a malay.. this is an indian and the other one is a chinese.. why?? why they should be told like this ?? why should they grow up thinking that we r all different ?? My parents did not teach anything like that ?? Until this second.. I have Malay.. Chinese and Indian frenz who even do anything at all for me.. who will even die for me.. If i can.. why cant the rest.. ??

I'll tell u what is Merdeka.. Merdeka is.. when we be in this country without any difference.. Merdeka is when we see each other.. we be together.. we smile.. and do everything sincerely from the heart.. not just for name sake.. smile in front of them.. and talk bad or hate them in reality.. Merdeka is when u can count on anyone and trust them regardless of RACE n RELIGION.. Merdeka is when there is no built in hatred among Malaysians.. Merdeka is when i see any application form.. without the Malay.. Indian.. Chinese.. and Lain Lain column.. There should only be 2 columns.. Malaysian and Non Malaysian.. Merdeka is when one of us r in a foreign country and we can still say proudly that I'm A Malaysian.. Merdeka is when there is TOTALLY NO RACISM and difference between the people who were born and live here..

If all this happen.. then u come and ask me.. Lets Celebrate Merdeka.. I will surely celebrate it..
Do u all think this is impossible.. I dont think so.. I think its very possible.. Its all in us.. If everyone else think like i do.. We can achieve this.. and always remember.. even now i'm writing for all of us.. for us Malaysians.. for our country Malaysia..

So lets do something about this.. enuff is enuff.. we wanna be like this ? or we wanna become the number 1 country in the world.. we are capable.. ONLY IF... we unite.. DONT SIMPLY say.. sing or shout 1 MALAYSIA... NO USE..

Lets make this become reality.. where can sincerely feel and proudly say.. I'm Malaysian..

Towards a better future.. Best wishes of 52nd Merdeka..

Who is a friend ?

A friend is someone to call upon during good times n bad times..

A friend is someone who understands whatever u do..

A friend is someone who tells u the truth about urself..

A friend is someone who knows what u going through at all times..

A friend is someone who refuses to listen to gossip about u..

A friend is someone who supports u all the time..

A friend is someone who never competes with u..

A friend is someone who is genuinely happy for u when things go well..

A friend is someone close to ur heart and always there for u..

A friend is someone that see ur true self and always see the best of u..

A friend is someone who always have them open to listen and hear what u really saying..

A friend is someone that will be ur strength when u cant carry urself..

A friend is someone who always offer hugs and make u feel comfortable..

A friend is someone for u to hold on when u need guidance to help u get up when u fall..

A friend is someone that can even listen to what u dont say..

A friend is someone that is concern of things that u do and think..

A friend is someone that always loves u and have a place for u..

Each friend represent a world in us.. a world possibly not born until they arrive.. and it is only by this meeting a new world is born..

This is how i wanna be towards my all my frenz.. no matter who they are.. where they come from.. regardless of anything at all.. if u r my fren.. a true fren.. then u r like a treasure for me..

A friend is like a flower..

Or maybe like a brand new gate..

that never comes unlatched..

A friend is like an owl..

both beautiful and wise..

Or perhaps a friend is like a ghost..

whose spirit never dies..

A friend is like a heart..

that goes strong until the end..

Where will be in this earth..

if we didnt have a friend..

With lotsa love..

Dr.Love..

The KIng Of Pop..

The Legend..




Name : Michael Joseph Jackson

Born : August 29, 1958

Died : June 25, 2009

Genre : Pop.. R&B.. Rock

Occupation : Singer, songwriter, record producer, arranger, dancer, choreographer, actor,
author,businessman, financier, philanthropist

Instruments : Vocal.. Multiple Instruments..

Years Active : 1964 - 2009



The Story..

The Bio History of Michael Joseph Jackson began when he was born on the 29th of August 1958 in Gary, Indiana. He was the 7th of nine children. (brothers: Sigmund "Jackie", Toriano "Tito", Jermaine, Marlon, Steven "Randy", and sisters Rebbie, Janet and La-Toya Jackson. Michael began his musical career at the age of 5 as the lead singer of the Jackson 5 who formed in 1964. In these early years the Jackson 5, Jackie, Jermaine,Tito,Marlon and lead singer Michael played local clubs and bars in Gary Indiana and moving further afield as there talents grew and they could compete in bigger competitions. From these early days Michael would be at the same clubs as big talented stars of there days, such as Jackie Wilson and would be learning from them even back then. In 1968 the Bobby Taylor and The Vancouvers discovered the Jackson five and from there they got an audition for Berry Gordy of Motown Records. The Jackson 5 signed for Motown and moved to California. Their first 4 singles, "I Want You Back", "ABC", "The Love You Save", and "I'll Be There" all made US No1 hits. The Jackson 5 recorded 14 albums and Michael recorded 4 solo albums with Motown. The Jackson 5 stayed with Motown until 1976, wanting more artistic freedom they felt they had to move on and signed up with Epic. The group name Jackson 5 had to be changed as it was owned by Motown, so they reverted to The Jacksons as they had be known in the early days. Brother Jermaine married Berry Gordy's daughter and stayed with Motown. Youngest brother Randy joined in his place. The Jacksons had a number of hit recordsand in total made 6 albums between the years of 1976 and 1984. In 1977 Michael made his first film debut when he starred in the musical 'The Wiz' playing Scarecrow with Diana Ross in the lead role of Dorothy. It was at this time Michael met Quincy Jones who was doing the score for the film. Michael teamed up with Quincey Jones as his producer for his first solo album with Epic Records. The album titled "Off The Wall" was a big success around the world and the first ever album to release a record breaking 4 No1 singles in the US. In 1982 Michael Jackson released the world's largest selling album of all time, 'Thriller'. This album produced 7 hit singles, breaking yet again more records, and went on to sell over 50 million copies worldwide. Michael was keen to use music video or short films as he called them to promote his singles from the album. He worked with the best directors and producers, using the latest technology and special effects.for the hit song 'Billie Jean' The short film 'Thriller' used the latest make-up artists technolgy combined with fantastic dancing and cherography, to produce a 14 minute video, with a start, a middle and an ending. So successful was this video that 'The Making Of Michael Jackson's Thriller' became the world's largest selling home video combined with soaring album sales. In 1983 Michael performed the now legendary moonwalk for the first time on the 'Motown 25 years' anniversary show. This performance alone set Michael undoubtable into the realm of a superstar.

In 1984 Michael won a record breaking 8 Grammy awards in one night. The awards were for his work on the 'Thriller' album and his work on the narrative for the 'ET Storybook'. On December 9th 1984 at the last concert of the Jackson's Victory Tour, Michael announced he was splitting from the group and going solo.

In 1987 Michael released his much awaited third solo album, titled 'Bad', and lauched his record breaking first solo world tour. 1988, Michael wrote his first autobiography talking for the first time on his childhood and his career. At the end of the 1980s Michael was named 'Artist Of The Decade' for his success off of his 'Thriller' and 'Bad' albums.

In 1991 Michael signed with Sony Music the largest ever recording contract and released his fourth solo album, 'Dangerous'. He toured world again in 1992, taking his concerts to countries that had never before been visited by a pop/rock artist. Also Michael founded the 'Heal the World Foundation' to help improve the lives of children across the world. In 1994 Michael married Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of rock legend Elvis Presley. The marriage only lasted for 19 months, as they divorced after 2 years.

1995 saw Michael release a fifth solo album, 'HIStory', which was a double album, first half new material and second half half greatest hits. Michael toured again over a legs covering a 2 year period. In between legs of the tour on November 14th 1996, Michael married for his second time to Debbie Rowe who was a nurse that Michael had met in the treatment of his skin pigment disorder. Together they had their first child Prince Michael Joseph Jackson jr born on February 13 1997 and a daughter Paris Michael Katherine Jackson born on April 3rd 1998. In 1997 Michael released the remix album 'Blood On The Dance Floor' which also contained 5 new song linked with a 38min film "Ghosts". This film Michael played 5 roles using the latest special effects and make-up artistry, combined with his dance and music.

In September, 2001 Michael celebrated his 30th anniversary as a solo artist with two concerts to be held in New York, USA. Many artists such as Whitney Houston, Usher, Destinys Child, Shaggy and many more performed there own and Michael Jacksons past songs. Michael then reunited with all of his brothers performed there biggest hits. Michael then went onto perform solo some of his biggest hits. In October 2001 Michael released the album 'Invincible' so far releasing only 2 singles including the big hit "You Rock My World". Since the release of this first single the album has been surrounded by rumours of a rift with Sony Music and a clear lack of promotion of the album. During the Invincible Era, 2000-2003, Michael would be honoured with many awards as “Artist of the Millennium”, and usher in new sounds for a new century.

Michael Jackson department on 25th June 2009.. just weeks before he was about to the greatest ever come back in history.. where he planned the World Tour 2009.. Infact he was working hard for to prepare for the tour. Although he is no more.. he always lives in the memory of millions of poeple throughout the world and he definitely lives in me..

Michael Jackson.. you and ur music.. will be with me.. until the last moment of my life.. May your soul rest in peace.. Wish to meet u one day..

Post Orientation Blues

"Before we start.. everyone synchronize ur time according my time.. the time is 2.17pm now.. and.. when i say OC OC.. u all reply.. here! here!.. got it ? "... this is how it all started.. One fantastic week of binding camp.. from the 1st module until the last sharing session.. everything was awesome..

I still remember the 1st day.. all new.. some blur.. some dont know whats happening... some thinking.. and asking themselves "what the hell am i doing here.. ? " even i myself.. as the coordinator.. almost gave up.. on the 3rd day.. it was like.. "Am i doing the right thing.. is this thing going on well.. am i gonna succeed.. ?? " these and many more questions in my head.. and many other things dwelling in my mind too..

However.. we all made it.. with the help of the people who created me.. like Nicky.. Shuk n DIn.. and also my my brothers.. Tharan.. Chee wei n Steve.. these r the people who really kept me strong.. kept me going.. coze.. in the process of the binding camp.. i made many sacrifices.. including ignoring someone people who r meaningful to me.. so that i could focus on what i'm doing.. and i wanted to make sure things go on well.. and it did.. the binding camp was a memorable one..

Then came the orientation.. for me.. on the 1st day.. i had an instinct that this time its gonna be something special.. coze i see something in the new freshies.. 1st 2 days.. Steve had a tough time on the stage.. i know exactly how he felt.. and i told him "Macha.. dont give up.. i believe in u.. n i believe we can do this.. ".. and thats the exact same thing i said to him on the last day.. when everything was over.. We did it.. we the OCs.. did it !.. for me.. it was an awesome orientation.. it will be remembered always..

To my OC family.. a family i have after my real family.. i really feel i belong to u guys.. i love each n every one of u.. i know.. i din get to know all of u well.. i wish i can.. this is our success.. each and every one of u made this happen.. i dunno.. this might be the last time as an OC.. i dunno.. not sure.. but.. if unfortunately.. i cant make it to the next orientation.. then.. the PASSION must be carried on by u guys.. the passion must not die.. the mmu cyber culture.. must carry on.. and last but not least.. Live with PASSION !!.. i love u all.. OCs rock !!

Remember.. Once an OC always an OC.. Live with passion !!

Interesting Matter.. Must Read !!

I came across this interesting article.. which was funny.. and kinda true i guess.. what u all think about it ?


How to Make a Woman Happy ?

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO :

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO :

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT :

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

and.. according to the article.. to make a man happy.. woman just need to love only him.. and cook him food.. :).. leave ur comments..

Open Relationship ???

Good to be here after so long.. Well.. Today while going out for a drink with my frenz.. the term Open Relationship came up during the conversation.. but.. none of us.. could really tell what is it actually about.. so.. what to do.. ? when we dont know about something.. we should find out.. rite? Lets see what i found out..

Open Relationship.. has 3 main definitions.. which are :

1. A relationship (often between two people) in which the participants are free to have sexual intercourse with other partners. If the couple making this agreement are married, it is then called an open marriage.

2. A relationship where both partners hide nothing from each other, including their past relationships and sexual experiences.

3. A relationship where both partners have agreed that monogamy, sexual fidelity or exclusivity are not expected. A polyamory relationship in which there may also be other lovers who are not partners in the given relationship. Most commonly, this refers to a primary couple who may have secondary relationships.

If u guys wonder what is Polyamory.. it means.. extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form.. obviously more than one bond..

There are few types of Open Relationship.. which are :

1. A relationship that place strict restrictions on partners.. such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.

2. A relationship that permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love.. such relationships are open, but not polyamorous ( Swinging )..

3. A relationship that do not accept the term of being in a relationship or not in a relationship.. they dont believe in it..

4. A relationship with 2 people that believe that they are capable and desirous of multiple loves.. whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented..

So now.. i think.. we have a brief information about this Open Relationship term.. this term is a very popular culture.. In European countries.. mainly in Canada.. and Britain.. where there a lot of writings.. songs.. and books.. on it.. there are even sex educators that advocate on Open relationships.. Obviously it sounds so interesting n fun honestly.. but the question is.. Is it suitable for our Culture.. ?

So now.. If anyone of our frenz.. says that he or she is in an Open Relationship.. At least.. we know what they mean.. huhu.. Hopefully they know what it means too.. before they come up to such decision..

Meals that melts off pounds..

BREAKFAST

RICOTTA WRAP
(350 calories)
1/4 cup plus 2 tbsp nonfat ricotta, 2 tbsp slivered almonds, 1/2 cup berries and 2 tsp honey in 1 whole-grain wrap such as Flatout multigrain flatbread

YOGURT CRUNCH
(350 calories)
5 oz plain yogurt, 4 walnut halves, 3 tbsp All-Bran, 1/4 cup granola and 3/4 cup cubed melon

BACON, EGG AND CHEESE MUFFIN
(500 calories)
Scramble 1 large egg in 1 tsp margarine and place on a toasted whole-grain English muffin spread with 1 tsp margarine. Top with 1 slice cooked turkey bacon and 2 tbsp shredded reduced-fat cheddar. Serve with 3/4 cup berries, 1/4 cup lowfat vanilla yogurt and 12 oz skim latte.


LUNCHES

SHRIMP SALAD
(400 calories)
10 cooked shrimp, 1/3 avocado, sliced, 1 tbsp slivered almonds, 2 tbsp each diced red onion and carrot, 1 tbsp prepared sesame dressing, tossed with 2 cups greens; 3 whole-grain crispbreads.

TANGY TURKEY PITA
(550 calories)
3 oz turkey breast, 5 olives, 3 tbsp feta, 2 tbsp each diced cucumber and tomato, 6 spinach leaves, 1 tbsp olive oil and 2 tsp balsamic vinegar in 1 whole-wheat pita; 1 large orange.

PEAR ‘WICH
(650 calories)
3 tbsp almond butter, 1/2 large pear, sliced, 1/8 tsp cinnamon on 2 slices whole-wheat bread. Serve with the other half of the pear.


DINNERS

FISH AND FRIES
(400 calories)
4 oz cod rubbed with 1 tsp olive oil, seared (2 to 3 minutes per side); 12 Alexia Sweet Potato Fries, baked as directed on package; 1 1/2 cups sliced cabbage tossed with 2 tbsp reduced-fat dressing.

CHICKPEA PASTA
(550 calories)
1/3 cup chopped onion, 2 cups chopped zucchini, 1/2 cup red bell pepper, chopped, and 1/2 cup chickpeas sautéed in 1 tbsp olive oil. Mix with 1 cup cooked ziti, 2 tbsp Parmesan.

CHICKEN PILAF
(600 calories)
3/4 cup cubed, cooked, skinless chicken mixed with 1 1/2 cups cooked Near East Whole Grain Wheat Pilaf drizzled with 1 tbsp olive oil; 1 cup steamed cauliflower with 1 tbsp lemon juice and 2 tbsp fresh parsley


SNACKS

Turkey and cheese roll-up
(100 calories)
1 oz sliced turkey breast, 1 oz sliced reduced-fat cheddar rolled up.

Chocolate milk with nuts
(150 calories)
1 cup light chocolate soymilk, 13 pistachios

Orange spritzer and almonds
(150 calories)
8 oz orange juice mixed with 4 oz sparkling water; 7 almonds

Try it out.. It seems can lose pounds in a week.. :)